Symmetry is a thing you do, not a property you have
Ask what makes a square symmetric and the useful answer is not "it looks the same on both sides". It is that there is a list of things you can do to it which leave it looking identical: rotate a quarter turn, flip it about a diagonal, and so on.
That shift, from symmetry as an adjective to symmetry as a collection of actions, is what makes it mathematics. And the collection has structure of its own. Do two symmetries in a row and you get a symmetry. Every symmetry can be undone. Doing nothing is a symmetry.
Key idea: Groups are what you get when you take that observation seriously. The subject studies the set of allowed actions rather than the object they act on, which is why the same theorem covers a crystal, a shuffle, and an error-correcting code.

